ABOUT ME


Hi, I’m Trevelyan (Trev). I was born in Truro, Cornwall, in 1972. I am pedigree Cornish and fiercely proud of it. I grew up in Penzance. I have one sister, Philipa who is five years my senior. I live in Southampton with my wife, Gemma, and our hamster, Bongle. I was previously widowed. My wonderful wife, Helen died in November 2008 of cancer. We’d shared 16 amazing years together. She made me better than I am. I am a primary school teacher, a profession I’ve enjoyed for the last 29 years, though I’m taking a break from it. This site began when I was browsing the web, courtesy of the terrible Irish Ferries connection in 2009, en route to the mountains of south-west Ireland. I wanted a ‘blog’ type platform to chronicle my walks and give myself something to do in order to avoid the loneliness in the evenings. 

In early 2010, I met Gemma, an amazing person and surely one of the kindest people in the world. From early on in our relationship, I got her out and about on the tops and she loved it. Since then, we’ve hiked all over the world together and had some incredible adventures. Most of them are captured on this site. 

I’ve been fortunate enough to have a long and successful teaching career. Although I arrived in teaching inadvertently (mix-up on my university application), it turned out to be the profession for me. In 2005, after a decade of teaching, I won the National Primary School Teacher of the Year award. I have taught in 5 of the 7 continents and I have been published a number of times in various geographical magazines, and in national and local newspapers. These articles are mostly related to teaching and geographical research that I have undertaken. However… with age comes wisdom and the time for real reflection and it appears teaching was always on the cards. My late mother was phenomenal at inspiring children and excelled at every rank in the leadership of Brownies and Rainbows right up to county commissioner. My sister was for years a brilliant secondary teacher, mainly of dance. More recently she retrained as an awesome child play therapist. Even my grandfather was a much-revered headteacher, after his time in the military. I also had some amazing teachers growing up (and some awful ones), the best being Mr Blamey, my A-Level Geography teacher. So, I realise I am indebted to many people, including many of the colleagues I’ve taught alongside over the years, the leaders who have encouraged me and, of course, the wonderful communities and pupils who’ve inspired me. Despite these accolades and achievements, I like to think that I have remained humble throughout. 

Obviously, I spend an inordinate amount of time in mountainous regions. It started with an incessant need to climb all of the Wainwrights in the Lake District, but it's spiralled out of control since then! I also love the coast, especially the coast in the homeland. I also enjoy city breaks and have been to some beautiful cities all over the world. I like to explore the historical stories of cities. My idea of a nightmare holiday is flying to a sunny resort in Lanzagrotti or Ibiza, and lying about by a pool. Not only do I get extremely nervous when in an aircraft, but I much prefer temperate and cold, to tropical and hot. 

I’m a keen musician and I play the piano and the drums. Music is very important to me and I enjoy listening to and composing music. Books are equally important. I’m an avid reader of both fiction and non-fiction. Books are among the extremely limited number of things that can make me sit still. 

I like to think that I don’t take life too seriously. Quite often, either when I’m feeling detached or I’m with like-minded souls (Andy and Glyn mostly), I recognise and celebrate the absurdity in life. One of my favourite quotes is from the German-Swiss novelist and poet Herman Hesse, who said about life, ‘Learn what is to be taken seriously and laugh at the rest.’ I’m not ‘laid back’ by any means. In fact, I’m prone to charging around at a frenetic pace. I like getting things done and I detest procrastination and lateness. I get bored easily and like to make the most of my time. Carpe Diem.

I have no fear of death. That isn’t to say I am reckless or that I don’t value life; the opposite in fact. When you hold your wife’s hand as she dies, you recognise how precious life is. I will cherish everything I experience, however when my time is up, I will not be afraid. 

Updated - Oct 2025

'All that I'm after is a life full of laughter
As long as I'm laughing with you
And I think that all that still matters is love ever after
After the life we've been through
'Cause I know there's no life after you'

Daughtry
There's a ship out
On the ocean
At the mercy of the sea
It's been tossed about lost and broken
Wandering aimlessly 
And God, somehow you know that ship is me
There's a lighthouse in a harbour shining faithfully
Pouring its light out across the water
For this sinking soul to see 
That someone out there still believes in me

On a prayer, in a song
I hear your voice and it keeps me hanging on
Raining down against the wind
I'm reaching out 'til we reach the circle's end
When you come back to me again
                                     
Garth Brooks 



Got a picture of you I carry in my heart
Close my eyes to see it when the world gets dark
Got a memory of you I carry in my soul
I wrap it close around me when the nights get cold
If you asked me how I'm doin' I'd say just fine
But the truth is baby, if you could read my mind

Not a day goes by that I don't think of you
After all this time you're still with me it's true
Somehow you remain locked so deep inside
Baby, baby, oh baby, not a day goes by

Lonestar
Come to the edge
We might fall
Come to the edge
It’s too high!
Come to the edge
And they came
and we pushed
And they flew.

Christopher Logue, 1968
I'm only here tonight because of you  
You are the reason I am. 
You are all my reasons.

Professor John Nash
Teacher's TV
Because you’ll meet each other in the street in 30 years time
And there’ll just be a look
And you’ll know how special some days in your life are…
We've proved that the lion has teeth
We’ve wounded a springbok
When an animal is wounded, it returns in frenzy
It doesn’t think
The lion waits…and when the time is right
Goes for the jugular…
Today, on that field, every pass, every tackle, every kick
Is saying to a springbok, ‘You’re dying!’
And on that field today, all it will be sometimes, is a look, no words…
Just a look
And the biggest thing it will say is, ‘You are special, very very special!’
Go out...enjoy it…remember how you got here and why
Finish it off…and be special for the rest of your lives!

Ian McGeechan – Lions Tour 1997
Speech before Second Test
MACBETH
Wherefore was that cry?

SEYTON
The queen, my lord, is dead.

MACBETH
She should have died hereafter;
There would have been a time for such a word.
To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow,
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day
To the last syllable of recorded time,
And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle!

Macbeth Act 5 Scene 5

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